Fear and the Way Downward

For many of us entertainers, entertaining other individuals at a bar/club is a very routine thing for us to do. What we don't understand, at least for some of us, is that the entertaining business can deliver a high demand for what it is that we do. IF we know how to formulate what we want to do correctly, so that the customer can feel that we are giving them a high value return on their investment in us, and we can make them happy. 

Fear, many times, stops some women from becoming entertainers and even to become the best entertainer they can be, because we have many fears. Some women I have worked with over the years fear they can't do the job without being drunk. Some fear they can’t do the job without being high or doing drugs. Others fear that they can’t do the job because they don’t want to work a certain amount of hours, or on certain days. I feel so terrible for these groups of women. This is largely because they don’t know how to make the money they are seeking to make, they are stressed out beyond belief and feel what they are doing is not worth it.

Others don't want to take the course to learn how to get the best energy and make the best decisions for their customers. Entertainment Done Right’s “The Mental Click System'' did that for me and many women that I know, and am speaking of in this post, because we have all been taught a system. Our greatest fear is that if we do things incorrectly, then we won't get the outcomes we want such as more money and satisfied clientele. 

But the biggest concern in exotic entertainment is that the bars/clubs don’t properly teach you what the customer wants, how to entice the customer, and they don’t teach you how to set yourself up with the customer to create a dopamine surge (in the program, we call this the Dopamine Drip) and get past the crocodile part of the brain (this is the part of the brain that tells the potential client that it’s safe to talk to us!) 

Why would someone perceive us as dangerous, you might ask? The crocodile brain is the reptilian part of our brains that tell us when it’s safe or when there is danger. Sometimes when a client is approached by so many women in a night, it can feel overwhelming or chaotic to them. Especially, if most of the women who approach him are not enticing him correctly, which is most of the time. 

This is why getting past the crocodile brain is crucial to our success as entertainers. Fear has been a big thing for many women all their life, and the proper training and wisdom will get you past that point. Then soon, your life will be something that you love, entertaining will be something you can do easily, understand well, and want to do because you’re getting your biggest return off of it. Thanks a lot!

Christine